Alton Bay Suicide

Lakeboater · 05-22-2015, 11:51 AM

Just heard that a body recovery is going on in Alton Bay. Anyone have any more information?

Misha888 · 05-22-2015, 12:14 PM

is going to be released is what I read from a FD pal.

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Originally Posted by Lakeboater

Just heard that a body recovery is going on in Alton Bay. Anyone have any more information?

Misha888 · 05-22-2015, 05:54 PM

https://www.facebook.com/permalink.p...296882&fref=nf

Misha888 · 05-22-2015, 06:00 PM

http://www.unionleader.com/article/2....TKxcO8zR.dpuf

TiltonBB · 05-23-2015, 04:44 AM

http://www.unionleader.com/article/2...late=mobileart

glennsteely · 05-28-2015, 11:52 AM

What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else?

Misha888 · 05-28-2015, 04:34 PM

apparently.

"Her happiness led her to become a Life Coach and teach other people how to become happy." I wished she followed her own advice.

http://www.laconiadailysun.com/index...e-l-pochily-52

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Originally Posted by glennsteely

What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else?

Lakeboater · 05-28-2015, 09:20 PM

I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...

Misha888 · 05-28-2015, 09:41 PM

you had changed it. Probably an admin? Odd and I wouldn't someone to do that to my post.

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Originally Posted by Lakeboater

I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...

ishoot308 · 05-28-2015, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Misha888

you had changed it. Probably an admin? Odd and I wouldn't someone to do that to my post.

Yeah, I noticed one of my post titles was changed as well...didn't like it one bit!

Dan

tis · 05-29-2015, 06:17 AM

What is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

glennsteely · 05-29-2015, 08:23 AM

I dont mean to sound harsh, but i wish i knew what was going on in her life to make her want to do this, and how she did it.....i dont know her, but i am drawn to this story and this woman for some reason.....i just feel like there is a big part of this that we are not seeing or hearing.....idk, could just be me. Any more info would be appreciated.

glennsteely · 05-29-2015, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by tis

what is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

didnt see this before i started my last post....

A life coach is like a motivational speaker who also does private sessions instructing people how to live life and be happy and make the most out of what you have, drawing from their own personal experiences.....

I hope that answers your question, also, that is my definition, not all may agree, but basically, that sums it up.

tis · 05-29-2015, 06:19 PM

Sounds good to me!!!

Misha888 · 05-29-2015, 06:28 PM

No children, and tortured souls can be pushed to the brink. It also states that you can donate to a cancer foundation. Maybe she had cancer and wanted to finalize her life in her own way? Just all interpretations of a long obit. I feel sorry for her either way.

I know of a happy person on the outside who took her own life. Sometimes there is just no answer.

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Originally Posted by glennsteely

didnt see this before i started my last post....

A life coach is like a motivational speaker who also does private sessions instructing people how to live life and be happy and make the most out of what you have, drawing from their own personal experiences.....

I hope that answers your question, also, that is my definition, not all may agree, but basically, that sums it up.

Lakeboater · 05-29-2015, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Misha888

As I read, she was married but had a boyfriend. No children, and tortured souls can be pushed to the brink. It also states that you can donate to a cancer foundation. Maybe she had cancer and wanted to finalize her life in her own way? Just all interpretations of a long obit. I feel sorry for her either way.

I know of a happy person on the outside who took her own life. Sometimes there is just no answer.

Huh? Reads more like her second husband predeceased her.
RIP

bruinsfan · 05-29-2015, 10:46 PM

Jeff passed in 2011.

glennsteely · 05-30-2015, 10:26 AM

I feel horrible for her and the situation, not to mention the loved ones....but, it doesnt seem like the whole story is being told, seems like a whole lot is being left out. Cover up, conspiracy? Idk, foul play maybe? Did she drown herself? I am just drawn to this story, something, i dont know what, is bugging me about it, just doesnt seem right.
Maybe i'm crazy, but it just feels wrong. I hate to seem harsh, like i said, i truyly feel for this woman, and her family and friends, but i also feel "haunted" sort of, like she is saying to me, "help," "dont let this rest, get someone to listen, there is more to my story than is being said."
again, maybe i am crazy.....

Mr. V · 05-30-2015, 12:00 PM

We Americans typically don't discuss publicly people's reasons for suicide; perhaps it is out of respect for their surviving family, and perhaps it's because suicide is always an option for all of us at any time, and some of us are so close to ending it all that a mere nudge might be all it takes to push us over the edge.

*Not speaking from personal experience: I love my life*

Greene's Basin Girl · 05-31-2015, 01:51 AM

A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

tis · 05-31-2015, 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Greene's Basin Girl

A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

Really? I didn't know that. I don't understand that either. Why should the papers sensor what people want to put in an obituary?

fatlazyless · 05-31-2015, 09:31 AM

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

chipj29 · 06-01-2015, 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

Are you freakin' kidding me? You are seriously suggesting that this woman (among others) committed suicide because of unpaid property tax?

fatlazyless · 06-01-2015, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by chipj29

Are you freakin' kidding me? You are seriously suggesting that this woman (among others) committed suicide because of unpaid property tax?

Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

That Guy · 06-01-2015, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Jewish cemeteries are tough and strict with suicides; they get buried all the way in the back in the suicide section, where they have to stay for the remainder of their death. And, that's another good reason not to do it; like here in NH, there's suicides who probably did it at least in part due to their unpaid local property tax.

Who know's but maybe that's what drove this Alton suicide to do it. By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

Newbiesaukee · 06-01-2015, 01:02 PM

I think this sad thread has run its course.

neutronxray · 06-01-2015, 02:11 PM

She just purchased a townhouse at Sundown Condos in Laconia. She had moved some personal belonging in but never ended up spending a night there. The property will be tied up now in probate for some time. Very Sad

codeman671 · 06-01-2015, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

Yes ..... seriously ..... for many NH property tax payers, the local property tax bill that comes in the mail does not even get opened to look at the bill for a long time .... like weeks .... because they dread having to pay it ..... because it sometimes is arbitrary and not based on their ability to pay it .... and the people are stuck with a big problemo..... so's it could well be a contributing psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problem ..... what to do ..... yikes!

I am thinking they think person with psychological deteriorating downward spiralling mental problems may be you Les...

Charlie T · 06-01-2015, 08:56 PM

I have to say I'm surprised and disappointed by the comments in this thread. I understand that everyone has a right to be heard but for God's sake a person died here under horrible circumstances. Can't we respect the dead and not debate and speculate what might of happened? Leave it alone and let her rest in peace! Her passing should not be cause for gossip, speculation or story telling.

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

Merrymeeting · 06-02-2015, 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlie T

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

Well stated! Long overdue.

brk-lnt · 06-02-2015, 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlie T

On another note isn't there a way to stop the 'village idiot? He has stooped to a new low here. I'm didn't think even he could be this crass.

CT

You can easily block users on this forum. Try it, I did that a couple of years back.

fatlazyless · 06-02-2015, 06:52 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

By the way, in her photo, she looked like a very happy and attractive woman.

So, that does not seem to me to be a comment that is in bad taste.....all things considered here.

Happy Gourmand · 06-02-2015, 07:26 AM

Please, let us all attempt to maintain a bit of decorum and show some compassion for the deceased's family and friends and let this thread die on its own.

codeman671 · 06-02-2015, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by fatlazyless

So, that does not seem to me to be a comment that is in bad taste.....all things considered here.

But what about the rest of the garbage you were spewing?

glennsteely · 06-03-2015, 07:40 PM

This whole thing has gotten way out of hand now.....i think i will excuse myself now, before it gets any worse.

Rest in peace poor woman. I am sure you will be missed. I hope and pray that your suffering has ended, whatever it may have been.

05-22-2015, 11:51 AM	#1
Lakeboater Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 391 Thanks: 20 Thanked 130 Times in 93 Posts	Alton Bay Suicide Just heard that a body recovery is going on in Alton Bay. Anyone have any more information?

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05-28-2015, 11:52 AM	#6
glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	What ever happened? What was the outcome of this? Does anyone know anything else? __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

05-28-2015, 09:20 PM	#8
Lakeboater Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 391 Thanks: 20 Thanked 130 Times in 93 Posts	title I'm curious why the title of this thread was changed from recovery to Alton Bay Suicide. Just wondering...

05-29-2015, 06:17 AM	#11
tis Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6,405 Thanks: 719 Thanked 1,379 Times in 955 Posts	What is a life coach? Is it a volunteer position or a real job?

05-29-2015, 08:23 AM	#12
glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	Makes me wonder.... I dont mean to sound harsh, but i wish i knew what was going on in her life to make her want to do this, and how she did it.....i dont know her, but i am drawn to this story and this woman for some reason.....i just feel like there is a big part of this that we are not seeing or hearing.....idk, could just be me. Any more info would be appreciated. __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

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tis Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 6,405 Thanks: 719 Thanked 1,379 Times in 955 Posts	Sounds good to me!!!

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05-30-2015, 10:26 AM	#18
glennsteely Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Mantua, N.J. Posts: 472 Thanks: 90 Thanked 111 Times in 38 Posts	Just feels.....wrong. I feel horrible for her and the situation, not to mention the loved ones....but, it doesnt seem like the whole story is being told, seems like a whole lot is being left out. Cover up, conspiracy? Idk, foul play maybe? Did she drown herself? I am just drawn to this story, something, i dont know what, is bugging me about it, just doesnt seem right. Maybe i'm crazy, but it just feels wrong. I hate to seem harsh, like i said, i truyly feel for this woman, and her family and friends, but i also feel "haunted" sort of, like she is saying to me, "help," "dont let this rest, get someone to listen, there is more to my story than is being said." again, maybe i am crazy..... __________________ You have to go out on a limb sometimes, cause that is where the fruit is. You can't get to the fruit from that nice safe spot, clinging to the trunk of the tree......

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Mr. V Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: the left coast (Portland)and West Alton Posts: 1,326 Thanks: 61 Thanked 235 Times in 159 Posts	We Americans typically don't discuss publicly people's reasons for suicide; perhaps it is out of respect for their surviving family, and perhaps it's because suicide is always an option for all of us at any time, and some of us are so close to ending it all that a mere nudge might be all it takes to push us over the edge. Not speaking from personal experience: I love my life

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Greene's Basin Girl Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Moultonborough, NH Posts: 1,515 Thanks: 394 Thanked 527 Times in 269 Posts	A close friend had a son that died of a heroin overdose. She wanted to mention the way he died in the obituary. The local newspaper's would not print it.

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