Pretty much a don't ask dont tell kind of thing.
Interesting thread here. I live in a town around Lake. Grew up in eastern MA.
When my father passed about 20 years ago, after the brief interment service at cemetery, sister & I decided to leave a portion of his ashes on a shore within a park, where we could see Boston skyline where he had worked and also see area of town where our childhood house was. The remaining portion in the cemetery plot next to out mother. We have no regrets.
Same day in April, we drove to the Cape Cod beach where sister's father in law had done lots of fishing; brother in law through his late dad's ashes in ocean. Both had died in mid-winter. We had waited till his grandkids were out of school. We never sought the regulations....
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