Baygo...
I am so sorry to hear of the withdrawal. I wish I could be there to help out, but I am not local and will not be in NH this weekend.
It is truly a shame. What you are doing is a wonderful thing. Don't worry about thinking your fundraiser name was being offensive. Remember it was a minority that was offended. The thought that went into the event far outweighs everything else.
I like what Argies's wife said.... "I just want to call it "cured!" ...and what you are doing will help get us there. Thank you.